Saturday, July 31, 2021

Canyon

Do you ever feel like your life is life a canyon – a deep ravine that a river flows through?  Sometimes the canyon is a valley, sometimes it’s a gorge, sometimes it is a chasm, sometimes it is a steep cliff where the walls have been eroded away by running water. Sometimes, it’s a place where a trickle of water that drips ever so slowly….and wears you down.

What if we looked at the deep ravine differently?  What if we saw God’s amazing love as the river flowing through the ravine?  What if we saw His mercy fill the gorge so full that His grace abounds?

Walls being eroded away by running water can be a good thing in our lives.  It can be good because it means we are leaving behind the yucky stuff.  All of us have it.  Stuff we wish we could say never happened in our life or choices that we made that we wish we could change.  Let that yucky stuff erode away in God’s love……….let the river run through it and wash away the dirt and grim by the blood of Jesus!  He can cleanse each one of us from anything that has kept us from living abundantly!  He wants us to be filled to the brim with JOY!  Yes, FILLED!  To the BRIM!

Picture hiking through a canyon.  As you begin your descent, stop and look at the magnificent view from the top of the canyon.  What do you see?  An open expanse that spans the horizon?  Then, look below…..there is a deep valley waiting for you to walk towards it and explore what is around you as you descend.

As you start to walk, you may notice there may be a worn path to follow or there may be rocks and brush that you encounter.  Which would you choose?  Smooth or rough? Straight down or winding your way back and forth to avoid the steep parts?  The outcome is often the result of our choices in life along the path.

Look at the river flowing………what is being washed away?  What is being made new by the washing?  Is it like a babbling brook gently moving through your life or, is it a torrential current that seems to be flushing out the yucky parts?  Gentle or torrential, we all need to clear the way to new paths.  New ways of perceiving why God may be allowing something in our lives that is unwanted. 

Is the flow of the current flushing out old wounds?  If so, remember that you are a new creation in Christ! 

If the flow is softly taking you to a new place of understanding or awareness, be glad!  God’s hand is upon you.

As you make your way down, take time to look back where you came from and notice how far you have come along the way and how beautiful the scenery has been. 

Think about that:  Look up and notice how far you have come!  Breathe…….allow yourself the refreshment that comes with reflection.  Feel a new joy welling up in your heart! 

Opening our minds to all the ways God works in our lives in a very good thing.  It allows us to move on, to forgive and be forgiven.  Or, perhaps this walk through the canyon is allowing you to realize how very blessed you have been. 

Let the river flow!

John 7:38

"He who believe in Me, as the Scriptures has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water."

 

Saturday, July 17, 2021

Present or Presence?

 Have you ever had a present within a person's presence?  I have.  Just this past 10 days.

A friend of mine that I have known almost 40 years came to visit me in KC.  We had not seen each other since 2004 - 17 years ago! I was originally going to have knee surgery on July 8, and due to unexpected circumstances, the surgery is postponed to a later date this year or early next year.  But, despite the surgery date change, my friend, Candace decided to come to KC anyway.  What a gift for me!!!

We have not seen each other since 2004 when I went to Florida to see her after resigning from an excrutiating job where I was working 16-18-21 hour days.  Going to visit Candace back then was a much needed break and a complete place to rest after such long hours for two straight years!  I was so grateful to be done with that job - Whew!  And, Candace was the perfect hostess!!!

This time, it was my turn to host!  We gallavanted around KC, Parkville, and Weston, MO!  We had a blast going to the Plaza, Westport, the Nelson Atkins Art Museum, The Kauffman Gardens, The Church of the Resurrection, Black Dog coffee, KC Rivermarket, Planters Seed store, and the OP Farmer's Market (even though it was rained out!). We covered a lot of ground!

Plus, Candace and my new dog Tula got along famously!!!  It was so much fun to see the two of them together...boy!  Did they hit it off!!!  Tula kept looking at me all week, saying with her eyes:  "Can we keep her, Mom?  Can we???" (Ha! Ha!)

So, when a person hasn't seen a friend in such a long time, how often do they see and recognize the gift that was just given?  By God's grace, I have been blessed to see, receive and recognize the many, many gifts the Lord gave me this week through Candace....think about that!  

What present does a friend give you?  Here are just a few of the gifts I have been given this week:

Her time... her willingness to come visit despite the changes to your schedule.....her love...her ears to listen and share each of  our stories...her heart to offer compassion for what has been going on in our lives over the past 17 years...her companionship and company....her laughter....her smile.....her hugs.....and these are only to name a few!  

Candace is also a very good cook, so I was blessed to have several meals which she cooked from scratch ready to eat when I got home from work - Delicious!!!  Plus, she treated me to several meals out at places like Black Dog Coffee and the Mediterranean Restaurant ft the Rivermarket!!!

In giving me the gift of her time and energy, she gave me the gift of her presence as well.  Each day, I was able to unwrap a new gift.  First, we untied the ribbon on a elegantly decorated package with all the moments we shared "catching up."  Then, we carefully unwrapped the wrapping paper by sharing fun adventures and extraordinary "Holy Ground" moments when we visited the Church of the Resurrection in Leawood and Holy Trinity Historic Church in Weston.  We got to experience seeing the Documentary on the making of a 100 yard stained glass window of our Blessed Lord, Jesus, with His arms open and inviting us to come and give all our heavy laden burdens at His feet!!!  And, finally, we shared the actual gift inside of the package - Candace and her presence!!!  

We laughed, prayed, talked, played with the dog, took Tula for walks, shared meals and adventures to unique places like Pryde's in Westport, tasted wine together at Ladoga Ridge Winery in Smithville, and did a Whiskey tasting at the Celtic Ranch in Weston - what fun!!!

She was (and is) a gift.  Her presence calmed me down after a long day at work, lightened my load by cooking and cleaning while I was a work, and lifted my spirits to look at life through a new lens and a new perspective!  WOW!!!  

Candace truly brought me a gift that was priceless:  Friendship.  Love, Time. Attention.  Physical presents like a beautiful  new bracelet from the Nelson Art Museum, bread from Black Dog coffee, but most of all, I received the gift of a lifetime:  Her presence was my present!!! 

I am so very grateful for this time that we had together and hope it won't be another 17 years before we see each other again!  

Thank you, Candace!  And, thank you, Lord for such an incredible gift this week!!!  You amaze me, Lord!!!