Out of the
Miry Bog…
(Written
by Pam Spencer, May 18, 2020©)
Psalm 40
Verses 1-3
“I waited patiently for the Lord;
and He inclined His ear to me, and heard my cry.
He lifted me out of the horrible
pit, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my steps.
He has put a new song in my mouth
– Praise to our God; many will see it and fear, and will trust in the Lord.
Verse 8
I delight to do Your will, O my God;
and Your law is written within my heart.
Verses 11-13
Do not withhold Your tender
mercies from me, O Lord; Your lovingkindness and Your truth continually
preserve me. For innumerable evils have surrounded me;
My iniquities have overtaken me,
so that I am not able to look up; they are more than the hairs of my head;
therefore, my heart fails me.
Be pleased O Lord, to deliver me;
O Lord, make haste to help me!
Verse 16
Let all
those who seek You rejoice and be glad in You; let such as love Your salvation
say continually, the Lord be magnified!”
The pit of despair resounds in
your head and your heart.
You ask yourself again and again:
“How can I possibly get up out of this “miry bog?”
What will lift this fog? It plagues me day and night and I ask myself,
should I stay or should I go? A hundred
times a day…..
One heavy disappointment jolts me,
but years of the same disappointment???
Surely God would not want me to live this way….
Let’s look at the definition of
some of these feelings….
Despair is to lose all hope, an
utter lack of hope or that which destroys all hope….dashed hopes, desperation,
forlorn hope…..hopelessness. When have
you felt this way? Dashed hopes??? An
utter lack of hope? Not possible! Oh yes, there is a situation that is causing
me to lose all hope. How could this
possibly happen? One instance at a
time.
One disappointment at a
time. And, when this disappointment
comes repeatedly, year after year, well, it rips you apart….it makes you feel
unloved and not cared for….your heart is stuck in that miry bog.
Then, looking at the word disappoint
– it means to fail to satisfy the hope, desire, or expectation of….to thwart. And more so is disappointment: the act of disappointing, the condition or
feeling of being disappointed. UGH. Failing to satisfy the hope, the expectation. Thwarting all possibility of changing the
situation? Could it really be that there
is NO hope? That this feeling of
hopelessness will not go away?
One more layer to consider: Mire is a bog, a deep, slimy soil of mud, to
cause to sink or become stuck in mud. So,
then you find yourself in this miry. murky, muddy, slimy pit. There seems to be no way out. It is almost as if you are sitting at the
bottom of a well, like a cistern as they had in the first century. There is no rope to climb up and no one standing
at the top peering down at you and saying:
“I’m here! Hold on!!!”
There are people hurting this
badly….this desperately. The despair is
deep. The miry bog is real. The feeling of helplessness compounds the issue
and brings a person down to the bottom of the pit.
When you know a person or dear friend
who feels this way, what is your response?
What can one do to help? How can someone
diffuse the situation when their disappointment has been carving this rut for
years??? What advice can be offered? What resolution can be found?
Open communication has to
occur. Understanding at a very deep
level must start to immerge. Awareness
has to come to the surface. The mud must
be cleaned off. The slim needs to be dissolved. Resolution must become the expanse on which
to stand. No more hiding the hurt. No more sweeping the problem under the
rug. No more patiently hope for a
change. The volcano from unresolved
anger must be addressed.
So, how does that happen? Where to begin? Falling on your knees in prayer is a
beginning. Even if you have prayed for
YEARS to no avail, do not stop praying!
God is listening. He hears
you. He sees you. Do NOT give up hope!
HOPE!!! Ahhhhh, yes!
There is a GOD of hope that is hovering…..waiting to hear your prayer
again…..longing to fill that desperation, that hopelessness and heal that
disappointment, bitterness and anger. Longing
to allow HIM to resolve the situation.
Romans 15:13 says: “Now may the
God of hope, fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound
in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”
We have a God who cares. We have a God who wants healing. Even if we are at the point of NO return, we
have a God who can restore. Yes, I said
restore.
It is NOT an easy task. It is NOT an easy fix. It will take work and hard work at that. It will take humility. It will take trust. It will take time.
But this God of hope WILL restore
you. He will lift you up out of the miry
bog. He will bring you peace. And, yes, He will bring you joy!
Trust Him. Turn it all over to Him. Again.
And, again.
Be open, be honest, be
direct. Allow the flood waters of
healing to wash over you. Allow restoration
to begin.
Matthew 7:7 says:
“Ask, and it shall be given to
you.
Seek and you shall find.
Knock and the door will be
opened.”
Even if you have asked for YEARS,
ask again. Even if you have sought
resolution for YEARS, keep seeking. Even
if you have knocked on the door of understanding for YEARS, keep knocking. Do NOT give up hope!!!
God answers Knee mail. Trust Him.
Do NOT give up.